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July 1, 2005

LAWS ON FAMILY AND BEARING OF CHILDREN

I seek refuge in Allah, from satan the rejected.

In the name of Allah, The Most Gracious, The Most Merciful.

We are living in an era of fast advancing technology and changing times. Like everything else in life, God has created advantages and disadvantages; has created good and bad in everything. Nothing happens without His will. But you can be certain that God never advocates sin, meaning that God does not contradict His own laws. Here is the Proof:

7:28 Part: Say, “GOD never advocates sin.”

Revealed: The Allah letters are 12, and messenger’s letters are 11, revealing the diff. of 1 - Absolute Lord.

7:28 Part: Are you saying about GOD what you do not know?

Revealed: Both Parts: The Allah letters are 12 and 11, revealing the diff. of 1 - “it is the disbelievers who attribute sin, lies and conjecture to God”.

He has designed laws for all aspects of our lives. When we uphold all of the laws, without questioning, challenging, or changing them, then we are following the “guidance from the Lord”. If we change anything without due authorization and proof from Him, then we attribute lies to Him, which is a gross sin. The system put in place to be borne as a human child is through two parents, male and female, who are married to one another. The child out of such wedlock is according to His system. There are others who bear children without being married to each other, which defy and distort His system. Yet there are others who “marry within the same gender” and wrongly attribute this union as “marriage”, thus creating a gross lie against God. They even adopt or take over someone else’s children to fill the vacuum and pretend to represent a “family” or “reflect family values”, which is again another way to defy and distort God’s commands and system. God is the One who allows both systems to operate, so that He can distinguish the righteous, who follow His system, from the sinful ones who follow satan’s system of distortion and lies. To elaborate on the distorted system and the reason that God allows it to happen is given through verses 4:118-119, in which satan challenged Allah after being condemned by Him.

4:118 Part 1: ALLAH has condemned him (satan).

4:118 Part 2: And he said, “I will surely recruit a definite share of Your worshipers.”

Revealed: The Allah letters are 6 and 7, revealing the diff. of 1 - confirming satan’s challenge to Allah.

The Shahadah coded by Allah bears 12 Arabic letters with a GV of 165, that reveals and proves that Allah is One, and none of His creatures can be a god or gods beside Him.

Revealed: The first 12 Allah letters in the above verse have a GV of 165, leaving out only an Aleef in the end of the verse, clearly proving His Shahadah and that He is indeed One, (represented through the Aleef).

4:119 Part 1: “I will mislead them, I will entice them, I will command them to (forbid the eating of certain meats by) marking the ears of livestock.

Revealed: The precise GV of Allah letters is 202, which is the GV of LORD (Rabb), again confirming the challenge posed by satan.

4:119 Part 2: And I will command them to distort the creation of ALLAH.

Revealed: The precise GV of Allah letters is 162, which is the GV of God’s religion, “Al-Islam” or “The Submission”.

These revelations prove that God has accepted satan’s challenge to defy and distort His system. He has therefore designed the laws – to either benefit us (for the believers)– or to hurt us (for the disbelievers). Both sets of laws come from Him; though only “good” is attributed to God while all “sin and bad” is attributed to satan. The important GV’s revealed through verse 4:119 of “202 and 162” confirm and prove that satan has vowed to challenge, defy, distort, and change the religion of Islam, (162) that has been given by the Lord (202). Glory be to my Lord, Most Honorable and Praiseworthy. Let me show you another set of verses that tell us the consequence of following the devil whose promises are only an illusion.

4:119 Part: Anyone who accepts the devil as a lord, instead of ALLAH, has incurred a profound loss.

4:120 He (the devil) promises them and entices them; what the devil promises is no more than an illusion.

Proof of Allah’s Absoluteness: The Aleefs are 6 and 5, revealing the diff. of 1 - Absolute Lord, be He Glorified.

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Additional Miracle: Even the Allah letters are 11 and 10, revealing the diff. of 1 - Allah is One, be He Glorified.

Once you are knowledgeable and informed about two systems prevailing on earth; whereby the vast majority is following satan and the few following God’s laws, then upon seeing the prevalence of bad and evil, you still praise God and take it as the will of your Lord. You try to promote righteousness but do not have to stress yourself after observing gross injustice, sin and evil on earth. In order not to stray away from the path, and be a recruit for satan, as pledged by him in 4:118, it is important not to compromise in your belief, not even a little bit. As soon as satan sees an opening, doubts, or a weakness in your faith, he will lure, mislead, and corrupt you against the laws of the Almighty. It is very important to refer to the Quran for any questions and issues you may have, and to consult with the messenger, when there is one. After all, the messenger is appointed to part the true teachings and to purify you, thus avoiding being a victim of satan.

Through the Quranic history, I will show you some of the ways that satan has fulfilled his pledge to recruit, mislead, entice and finally to distort the creation of God.

7:141 Recall that we delivered you from Pharaoh’s people, who inflicted the worst persecution upon you, killing your sons and sparing your daughters. That was an exacting trial for you from your Lord.

Revealed: The Allah letters are 14 – being the Seven Pairs, reflecting the fact that satan recruited Pharaoh and the leaders to kill the sons of people for a variety of different reasons. One of the reasons was that the sons in those days used to help the parents more with all kinds of outside work and depriving the parents of such help created real hardship on them. Also, with fewer men left, it would reduce the chances of women getting married, thus destroying the family structure and family life, which is created by God for our happiness.

16:58 When one of them gets a baby girl, his face becomes darkened with overwhelming grief.

16:59 Ashamed, he hides from the people, because of the bad news given to him. He even ponders; should he keep the baby grudgingly, or bury her in the dust. Miserable indeed is their judgment.

6:137 Thus were the idol worshipers duped by their idols, to the extent of killing their own children. In fact, their idols inflict great pain upon them, and confuse their

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religion for them. Had GOD willed, they would not have done it. You shall disregard them and their fabrications.

6:140 Losers indeed are those who killed their children foolishly, due to their lack of knowledge, and prohibited what GOD has allowed for them, and followed innovations attributed to GOD. They have gone astray; they are not guided.

In these verses, satan misleads the fathers to think that having sons is more honorable than having daughters; in fact, many crimes of murder of children take place whereby parents are involved in abandoning or killing them. God informs us that such people are astray and are not guided.

Some countries are fast moving in the direction of legalizing same-sex unions, promoting them, and even calling them by the same word, “marriage”, that has been reserved by God for a man and a woman. It is God’s law that two men cannot produce a child, neither can two women produce a child. Nor can they have a genetic or biological link with the child in such a union. A sinful life and behavior of this kind effectively puts a stop on further reproduction of humans. The amount of publicity given in the news media to promote such sinful acts and with open parades whereby prominent government officials participate is unprecedented and shameful. There will come a time in the near future whereby children will not know the difference of marriage designed by God and the one that satan is promoting. This is the real distortion of God’s creation. If we do not spend the time and effort in parting with righteous teachings to our children immediately, then they can be easily misled by the devil. This movement has gained steam and has already reached the shores of many countries. Quite a few people get in on the sinful act thinking it is the norm, or rather fashionable to do it. Such sins of enormous proportions carry grave consequences from the Lord. It has happened in the past and is being repeated. Any kind of acquiescence or compromise in your belief can lead you to the same fate as that of Lot’s wife, who was doomed by Allah. The following verses reflect on God’s knowledge of the future, who knew that the sin of homosexuality will be repeated on a massive scale in our times, and accordingly has inscribed the verses with the Sacred Codes to point out the “Proven Consequences” for those who are led on by the devil to distort God’s system of creation and family life. The disbelievers are under the illusion that God is not watching them or is powerless to stop them. On both counts they are misled and wrong. The verses prove so:

7:80 Lot said to his people, “You commit such an abomination; no one in the world has done it before!”

Revealed: The Allah letters are perfectly 19.

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7:81 “You practice sex with the men, instead of the women. Indeed, you are a transgressing people.”

Revealed: The Allah letters are perfectly 14.

The Sacred Coding of 19 and 14 for this kind of gross sin should be a good reminder for all those who fear Allah, and His retribution. Let me continue with more verses given as follow up:

7:82 His people responded by saying, “Evict them from your town. They are people who wish to be pure.”

7:83 Consequently, we saved him and his family, but not his wife; she was with the doomed.

Question: Who saved the righteous and punished the transgressors?

Answer: Allah, the Almighty, the Omnipotent, the Avenger.

Revealed: The Allah letters for verses 80-81-82-83 are as follows:

19 + 14 + 18 + 15, the sum is a PERFECT 66, being the GV of ALLAH (be He Glorified)

7:84 We showered them with a certain shower; note the consequences for the guilty.

Revealed: The Allah letters for all 5 verses above are as follows:

19 + 14 + 18 + 15 + 10, the sum is a perfect 76 = 19 x 4.

Revealed: The GV of Allah letters for all 5 verses are as follows:

205 + 167 + 92 + 118 + 76, the sum is perfect 658 = 14 x 47.

Just like the transgressors were marked with a certain punishing shower, so are these profound verses marked with the Sacred Coding of 19 and 14, for those who are certain. Alhumdo Lillah.

Some people have gotten rid of their wives by calling them their mothers. This is another trick by satan to corrupt the human minds, and he uses different ploys to destroy God’s system put in place for the benefit of mankind.

58:2 Those among you who estrange their wives as their mothers know full well that they are not their mothers. Their mothers are the women who gave birth to

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them. Indeed, they are committing a blasphemy and a falsehood. GOD is Pardoner, Forgiver.

Though God creates and controls the number of people on earth; satan falsely makes the leaders and other people believe that they have to control the population. As such, he directly interferes and distorts the creation of God and the process set in motion by the Most Gracious. There are countries and governments that encourage birth control to limit the increase in population. There are countries that penalize couples for having more children than allowed by the state, while there are others that give extra bonus and allowances for having children in order to increase the population. Some people in southeast Asia even abort the fetus if it is girl, because of future responsibility of marriage and dowry. Brides are burnt alive for failing to bring a required amount of dowry, as demanded by the husband. Some countries have zero growth rate of population whereby they have to import people from other countries to sustain their industry and pension plan for the seniors. Humans even worry that a certain kind of ethnic race of people might outnumber theirs and try to find answers through aggressive and adversarial ways to counter the presumed and imaginary threats.

There are individual families who practice birth control to limit the number of children; as their lives, jobs and leisure time is more important to them, rather than God’s laws. This has become commonplace and a norm for couples to decide the timing of birth of their children. They even arrogantly and defiantly cite the number of children they want to have, as if they are in control over their lives. Then there are others who are not blessed with a child or children, and satan makes them pursue artificial human ways in order to distort the creation process which are not in harmony with God’s laws. This has become an important topic and the believers ask me questions – so I am addressing it now. satan cannot create; but he can advise and encourage copying which is called “cloning”. satan cannot create body parts so he encourages people to replace them. satan cannot create or remove wrinkles from your face, so he advises cosmetic surgeries. satan cannot create the color of your hair or your eyes, so he advises you to bleach them or wear colored eye lenses. satan cannot make you conceive a child; so, he will advise you to seek artificial insemination or other ways available now. satan cannot create the semen needed to create a child, so he will advise you to borrow it from the “sperm bank”. These are some of the examples of “DISTORTION OF GOD’S CREATION PROCESS”.

Many people across the earth are shying away from the responsibility of marriage or postponing it for a later age. At the same time the rates of adultery have gone up substantially. This is another way that satan misleads the disbelievers and distorts God’s creation process. There are many children born out of this immoral behavior;

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some are abandoned, some killed, and some end up with adoption agencies to be parented by others.

17:31 You shall not kill your children due to fear of poverty. We provide for them, as well as for you. Killing them is a gross offence.

17:32 You shall not commit adultery; it is a gross sin, and an evil behavior.

Every human being is borne through a mother, and the child’s gender is decided by the father’s chromosome. A recent documentary by the “National Explorer” titled “Life inside the womb of a woman”, details the precision, the timing, and the complex nature of the formation of the human child from conception to delivery. It leaves a believer praising and glorifying Allah for this immense miracle in producing and creating a unique and identifiable creature that does not match any other. To keep this topic within the time limit of the khutbah, I will not go into any more details, except to advise all of you to watch it for yourself.

The normal length of pregnancy is 38 weeks, which converts into 266 days. This is a confirmed fact, though the child can be borne earlier or later for various reasons. The 38 weeks are a multiple of 19, and the 266 days are a multiple of 14 and 19, bearing both the Sacred Codes. God has divided the 9 months of pregnancy into 3 trimesters, which is given in the Quran and also confirmed by the doctors now. God initiated everything, including the Quran, and has already stated profound facts with mathematical precision, which are now confirmed by the experts of relative sciences. For example, I will recite comparable verses on stages of creation of the human being.

22:5 O people, if you have any doubt about resurrection, (remember that) we created you from dust, and subsequently from a tiny drop, which turns into a hanging (embryo), then it becomes a fetus THAT IS GIVEN LIFE, OR DEEMED LIFELESS. We thus clarify things for you. We settle in the wombs whatever we will for a predetermined period. We then bring you out as infants, then you reach maturity. While some of you die young, others live to the worst age, only to find out that no more knowledge can be attained beyond a certain limit. Also, you look at a land that is dead, then as soon as we shower it with water, it vibrates with life and grows all kinds of beautiful plants.

Revealed: The Aleefs (Proof of Absoluteness) are 36.

23:12-14 We created the human being from a certain kind of mud. Subsequently, we reproduced him from a tiny drop, that is placed into a well-protected repository. Then we developed the drop into a hanging (embryo), then developed the hanging

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(embryo) into a bite-size (fetus), then created the bite-size (fetus) into bones, then covered the bones with flesh. WE THUS PRODUCE A NEW CREATURE. Most blessed is ALLAH, the Best Creator.

Revealed: The Aleefs (Proof of Absoluteness) are 22. The difference between 36 and 22 is a perfect 14, revealing the Miracle of the Seven Pairs, God be Glorified. These verses also reveal a lot more facts and proofs, which I shall recite at some other time. As for our death and resurrection on the Day of Judgment, here are the verses and the proofs from the same Absolute Allah.

23:15 Then, later on you die.

23:16 Then, on the Day of Resurrection, you will be resurrected.

Revealed: The Aleefs are 1 and 2, revealing the diff. of 1 – ABSOLUTE ALLAH.

Revealed: Even the Allah letters are 3 and 4, again revealing the diff. of 1 – OMNIPOTENT ALLAH.

Here are some of the additional facts revealed through the above verses; that every creature is a new one and not a copy of any other. Moreover, Allah is the Most Blessed One, being the Best Creator. The word “best” is always used when there is something else to compare with. When there is nothing to compare and is the only one, then it is called UNIQUE and ONLY. The act of “cloning” by humans makes them feel like creators; but they forget that: it was not initiated by them, and it already existed. Moreover, it is not a new creature, but a copy of the old one. This is the difference between Allah and the human gods. That is the reason He has called Himself as the Blessed One and the Best Creator. Now see the proofs for this profound fact:

23:14 Part: We thus produce a new creature.

23:14 Part: Most blessed is ALLAH. 23:14 Part: The Best Creator.

Revelation of Miracle: The Allah letters are 6 – 5 – 4, revealing a clear diff. of 1 in each part.

Revealed: The GV of Allah letters for all 3 parts is 168 which is a multiple of 14 – revealing the Miracle of Seven Pairs.

Revealed: The letters and GV of Allah placed side by side is: 168,15 = 19 x 885 – revealing the Miracle of 19 also.

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Thus, Allah has proved this most important attribute of His – being the only Creator, and the Best One, through the “Revelation of 1” and the “Revelation of 14 and 19”, as shown above.

Let me now recite some verses showing the sequence of human creation, and the system designed by God.

55:1-3 The Most Gracious – Teacher of the Quran – Creator of the human beings.

56:57-59 We have created you, if you could only believe! Have you noted the semen that you produce? Did you create it, or did we?

51:49 We created a pair of everything, that you may take heed.

78:8 We created you as mates.

53:45 He is the One who created the two kinds, male and female.

76:2 We created the human from a liquid mixture, from two parents, in order to test him. Thus, we made him a hearer and a seer.

30:21 Among His proofs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, in order to have tranquility and contentment with each other, and He placed in your hearts love and care towards your spouses. In this, there are sufficient proofs for people who think.

30:22 Among His proofs are the creation of the heavens and the earth, and the variations in your languages and your colors. In these, there are Signs for the knowledgeable.

2:222 They ask you about menstruation: say, “It is harmful; you shall avoid sexual intercourse with the women during menstruation; do not approach them until they are rid of it. Once they are rid of it, you may have intercourse with them in the manner designed by GOD. GOD loves the repenters, and He loves those who are clean.”

2:223 Your women are the bearers of your seed. Thus, you may enjoy this privilege however you like, so long as you maintain righteousness. You shall observe ALLAH, and know that you will meet Him. Give good news to the believers.

86:5-6-7 Let the human reflect on his creation. He was created from ejected liquid. From between the spine and the viscera.

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75:37-39 Was he not a drop of ejected semen? Then He created an embryo out of it. He made it into male or female.

77:20-22 Did we not create you from a lowly liquid? Then we placed it in a well- protected repository. For a specific period.

80:18-19 What did He create him from? From a tiny drop, He creates him and designs him.

35:11 Part: No female becomes pregnant, nor gives birth, without His knowledge. No one survives for a long life, and no one’s life is snapped short, except in accordance with a pre-existing record. This is easy for ALLAH.

53:32 Part: He has been fully aware of you since He initiated you from the earth, and while you were embryos in your mother’s bellies.

16:78 GOD brought you out of your mother’s bellies knowing nothing, and He gave you the hearing, the eyesight and the brains, that you may be appreciative.

31:34 Part: He knows the contents of the womb.

13:8 Allah knows what every female bears, and what every womb releases, or gains. Everything He does is perfectly measured.

39:6 He created you from one person, then created from him his mate. He sent down to you eight kinds of livestock. He creates you in your mother’s bellies, creation after creation, in trimesters of darkness. Such is ALLAH your Lord. To Him belongs all sovereignty. There is no god beside Him. How could you deviate?

42:49 Part & 42:50: He creates whatever He wills, granting daughters to whomever He wills, and granting sons to whomever He wills. Or, He may have the males and the females marry each other, then render whomever He wills sterile. He is Omniscient, Omnipotent.

71:14 He is the One who created you in stages. 84:19 You will move from stage to stage.

Revealed: From chapter 71 to 84 inclusive, these are 14 chapters, and the

verse numbers are designed to be 14 and 19 indicating and confirming that

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we are created in stages in our mother’s belly, as well as further stages throughout our life – as an infant – a child – as a youth – then an adult- and finally old age. Praise be to Allah. Our reproductive system is activated at a certain stage of our life, as well as growth of certain hairs over the body, the muscles, and many other facets of our bodies and faculties appear in stages of life.

Revealed: The Arabic letters in above verses are 14 and 15, revealing the diff. of 1, a confirmation from Allah, Omniscient.

Revealed: The messenger’s initials are 4 and 5, revealing the diff. of 1, an additional miracle of Allah.

49:13 Part: O people, we created you from the same male and female, and rendered you distinct peoples and tribes, that you may recognize one another.

49:13 Part: “The best among you in the sight of ALLAH is the most righteous.”

Proof of Righteousness: The Allah letters are 7, and messenger’s letters are 8, revealing a diff. of 1 – the reason being that this virtue cannot be achieved without following the messenger of Allah, who is here to deliver the message of the Omnipotent King of the Universe.

82:6 O you human being, what diverted you from your Lord, Most Honorable? 82:7 The One who created you, designed you, and perfected you.

Revealed: The messenger’s letters are 12 and 7, revealing the sum of 19, Subhan Allah.

Proof of Purpose of Creation: The GV of Allah letters for both verses is 162, revealing that the humans who are diverted from God is because they do not believe in submitting to Him. (GV of Submission is 162)

Has God created, designed, and perfected us under a certain and specific code? The answer is “YES.”

Revealed: The GV of messenger’s letters for verse 82:7 is 266 which is 14 x

19, revealing both the Sacred Codes.

Revealed: In addition, it is verse number 7, and messenger’s letters are 7 in the verse, constituting the Seven Pairs.

82:8 In whatever design He chose, He constructed it. 82:9 Indeed, you disbelieve in the religion.

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Proof of Absoluteness: The Aleefs are 3 and 2, revealing the diff. of 1 – Absolute God.

Proof of Allah: The Allah letters are 4 and 5, revealing the diff. of 1 – the Omnipotent Allah.

SUMMARY: Through the above verses narrating the system of creation and birth of a human, you have heard and seen that the man and the woman have to be married; have intercourse designed in the manner prescribed by God which is the reason He gave specific organs to each to cohabit; the man’s seed has to be planted by ejecting the sperm into the woman, which upon fertilization becomes a hanging embryo, if God wills it; then turns into fetus; is given bones and the bones covered with flesh; as well as other parts of the body develop including heart, lungs, kidneys, brain, nervous system, etc – a complex structure indeed takes form over a specific time period in trimesters of darkness; the womb can either lose the fetus called miscarriage, or gain to be delivered as a child; the fetus is either given life, or deemed lifeless by Allah; all of this is done by His unique Creative Power to produce a “new creature”. He can grant you daughters or sons, or leave you sterile, which is also His will and a Test for the believers.

Since He has detailed everything, it is easy to see why I tell the believers not to follow artificial or scientific ways to bear or produce a child. One of the reasons is that “the semen is not ejected directly into the woman”, as the verses tell us. This can only happen through intercourse with your spouse, which is the righteous way. I can answer any questions you may have. May God guide all of you.

Peace be upon the messengers.

Praise be to Allah, Lord of the Universe.